The Singletons have been such amazing hosts! Their house has recently been remodeled and is beautiful. They allowed our dogs and us to take over the basement when we weren’t hanging out in the camper. The sliding glass doors were perfect for squirrel watching and the walk-out area to the backyard were so handy for all of us. The laundry room got an afternoon workout, too!
We learned a lot about the Rolla chapter of Lambda Chi this weekend including that the founders started the fraternity as a healthy eating club in 1917. The original house was built in the 50’s and this was the third major renovation. I was really surprised by the dedication to faith and service that Lamda Chi instilled in its members. Over the years, I have recognized that these guys are a special group and this weekend just reminded me how deep those bonds of brotherhood run.
The house dedication was a packed ceremony in the “arts and crafts” room a.k.a. the party bunker. There were multiple speakers and a touching (and also hilarious) invocation that was followed with a formal tour of the remodeled house. The space is impressive.
Next, we spent a couple of hours having lunch at the Public House, a brewery that did it exist when Brad was at Rolla. A trip to Family Center (like a Farm & Fleet or Rural King) was fruitful. Turns out these types of stores are really essential when you are living out of your camper.
(These party favors were given out at the banquet. They are really amazing challenge coins.)
The evening was spent at the banquet where the formal celebration of the last 100 years took place. Our friend Rob Sutton organized most of the weekend’s activities. He MC’d the night and we are sure he was glad when the night was over. The blazer that was purchased as part of the Thrift Store Challenge in Shelbyville (see older posts) came in handy tonight!
All weekend long there has been a familiar face floating in and out of each of the events. He is an older gentleman that Libby first noticed at the BBQ at the house on Friday. She asked Brad if he knew him but Brad couldn’t recall. He wasn’t anyone he immediately remembered. Libby then asked a few other guys but nobody could place him. Libby (and eventually Brad) were just sure that they recognized this guy and were determined to figure it out. Again, Libby spotted him at the house dedication but was no closer to identifying the stranger. We ended up sitting at the formal celebration one table over from him so when we were in the buffet line, Libby took him aside and said, “At some point tonight I’d love to figure out how I know you.” The gentleman and his wife both looked puzzled. He read my name tag and said that the name didn’t sound familiar. I was about to walk away with my full plate of food, when Brad approached and said, “You guys wouldn’t happen to be from the Denver area would you?” They both responded immediately, “YES! We live in Parker.”
Right then it clicked for all four of us. Turns out, we met Charlie (Alpha Delta #738 – Brad is #1151) at a Rockie’s game back in June of this year. SAME Cafe was gifted with a donation of tickets to a day game by the Ballpark Association. We were able to sell most of the tickets as a fundraiser, but had two left over that didn’t sell. After our group picked up their tickets, I took the extras to the box office area in hopes of finding someone who could use them. I found one young woman visiting CO for work who appreciated the gift. That left me with one ticket to give away. I spotted this guy in line by himself who appeared to be waiting to buy a ticket. (Turns out that guy was Charlie). I asked if he was looking for a single ticket and he looked at me with skeptical eyes and said, “yes.” I told him we had an extra that we couldn’t sell and asked if he’d like a free ticket on the first base line. I am prettty sure he thought I was crazy. I was offering him a great seat for free. I did warn him that he would have to sit with my family but he didn’t seem too discouraged. I gave him the ticket and proceeded into the game to meet up with our group.
About 15 minutes into the game, Charlie joined us and we visited throughout. I learned a lot about him that day, I got to sit next to him. I heard that he had recently retired, that was why he could go to a day game. I learned he was volunteering at the zoo. We eventually shared with him about SAME and he promised to visit on one of his volunteer days since SAME is so close to the zoo. He even bought us a beer for giving him the ticket. After the game was over, we parted ways and Charlie promised to stop in to SAME.
It wasn’t long before he came in and had lunch with us on one of his days at the zoo (he makes food for the bears and does some horticulture.) He had to reintroduce himself to us but it was great to see him again. On another visit to SAME, he brought some flowers and plants for the front window. Over the course of these visits, we never got around to discussing where he went to school – what a small world.
We had a lovely conversation with him and his wife Marti at the banquet. We told everyone the story of how we know Charlie. It was such a fun connection for us once we figured out the identity of our mystery man.


We ended the night with old friends (including Todd, Brad’s older brother who also went to Rolla and was a Lambda Chi.) Our stops consisted of old stomping grounds and new favorites. Such fun!
We got up on Sunday and packed up everything from the Singleton’s house and hitched the trail back up. Breakfast was at the infamous Tatter Patch with Todd and crew.
We then followed Todd to his new home near Jefferson City for a visit.
On the way to Wardsville, the town where Todd, Linette and the girls now live, Brad swore he saw an armadillo dead on the side of the road. I insisted that armadillos don’t live in MO. We made a friendly wager and called Todd to verify. I lost. Apparently, I have a lot to learn about armadillos.
We had a great family visit over dinner and played lots of games.


















































